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Edition 017 · learning · Joan Oyiela

Motherhood is not a sacrifice

Mothers raising children with special needs are not sacrificing; they are building strength through relentless adjustments

Motherhood is not a sacrifice
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The narrative of maternal sacrifice is a tired trope. Mothers of children with special needs are not martyrs; they are architects of resilience, forging strength in the crucible of constant adaptation. Their journey is a masterclass in human perseverance, exposing the flimsiness of conventional expectations. We must recognise this as formidable strength, not quiet suffering. Why do we insist on framing power as pity?

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Some mothers do experience immense personal sacrifice. Their lives are often defined by a relentless giving of self, impacting their careers and personal aspirations. This reality should not be dismissed.

Audit trail
  • ·Resilience, not sacrifice
  • ·Redefining strength
  • ·Beyond conventional norms
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