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Love isn't universal balm for loneliness

Asexuality challenges the conventional wisdom that romantic partnerships inoculate against social isolation. Our understanding of connection is too narrow.

Love isn't universal balm for loneliness
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The mainstream view of romantic relationships as the ultimate shield against loneliness is deeply flawed. This study exposes its limitations, revealing that for asexual individuals, partnership offers no special protection. We must stop valorising singular romantic bonds above all other forms of human connection. Why do we insist on a one-size-fits-all model for belonging?

The strongest counter

While not a panacea, romantic relationships undeniably provide unique companionship and intimacy for many. Discounting their role in combating loneliness overlooks a fundamental human need for profound, often exclusive, attachment.

Audit trail
  • ·Asexuality overlooked
  • ·Relationship bias
  • ·Narrow connection view
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